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We just
wanted you to know that Mike has touched our hearts and will
be sadly missed. We will always remember his beautiful smiling
face, kind words, and helping hands. Mike made a stand for our
dog's drinking and eating bowls so she wouldn't have to bend
over so far to eat her meal, it works like a charm.
Take care
Love Ellen, Mel Paul & Kristen
(Original hand written)
Dear Mr. &
Mrs. Battle & Family, Apr. 19,2000
We were so sorry to hear
of Mike's tragic accident and our sincerest condolences go out
to you all.
I used to run the Oak
Bay Marine office when Mikey first started "hanging"
around the Marina and M.V. Lakewood. He was just a young lad
at the time and still in school. He was so enthralled with anything
and everything to do with the boats, fishing and was indeed
a delight to have around. I watched him progress from a "dockie"
to a full fledged Skipper of the Lakewood .which was one
of his many dreams and goals.
He and I became great
Buddies and affectionately referred to each other as "Mum"
and "Son". I have two grown sons of my own and Mikey
was my "third" He was always such a positive
person with a terrific lust for life. I will remember his delightful
sense of humour and kindness for everyone forever. Although
he had a few nasty accidents in his short life, he was still
able to keep his sense of humour and his beautiful smile. I
feel very proud and privileged to have known Mike and must say
you did a wonderful job of raising him and am sure you
are very proud of his accomplishments.
It is such a tragic"ending"for
such a terrific person and a great loss to all who knew him.
I know he will be missed and remembered by everyone who ever
met him.
God Bless Mike and may
he Rest in Peace. My heart goes out to all of you and hope that
you're able to feel some comfort in knowing how much everyone
loved Mike so much. He will be sadly missed, but fondly remembered.
Sincere Sympathy,
Jean & Harry Buckle
Dear Mr. &
Mrs. Battle
I feel that there is irony
in this as it was sent to me the day Michael lost his life here
on earth. I lit a candle yesterday for Michael in hopes that
the light would guide him on his journey to peaceful plains.
I hope we all can find peace in knowing that he is smiling down
upon all who knew him.
Love and god bless Lara Brown
I hope this will bring
a little peace to who are grieving at this time .
Please send this to the many people who loved Michael, it gave
me the peace and understanding that I desperately needed ..
People come into your
life for a reason, a season, or lifetime ..When you figure
out which it is, you'll know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your
life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed
outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide
you with guidance, support, or aid you physically, emotionally
and spiritually. They may seem like a god send, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without
any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this
person will say or do something to bring the relationship to
an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes
they do something to force you to take a stand for yourself.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been
answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into
your life for a SEASON< it is because your turn has come
to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of
peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you must
learn. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is Real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships
teach you lifetime lessons, those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way) and put
what you have learned to use in all other relationships and
areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship
is clairvoyant
Anonymous
Michael has touched all
our lives in many different ways, we all have our own special
memories of what Michael was to each of us./ Hold on to them
and never let go, he'll live on forever in our hearts and souls.
I believe people truly only die when we stop remembering them,
and how they touch our lives.
Thank you for being a part of my life Michael; you will never
be forgotten.
With Sympathy and Love
Lara Brown
Eulogy
by Linda Cain
Michael Battle was a very
special person. Part of the reason he was so special was he
was part of a very special close-knit family. I would like you
to indulge me for a moment and with a show of hands, could you
raise your hand if Michael or a member of the Battle family
ever hugged you. You know what I mean when I tell you that the
Battles hug you with more than just their arms, they hug you
with their heart and soul. When Michael hugged you, it didn't
matter if he just saw you a couple of weeks ago, he hugged you
and while hugging you asked how you were doing and you knew
he was really honestly glad to see you. In addition, when you
left and he hugged you goodbye it was as if he never wanted
to let you go and we sure did not want to let him go.
I've known the Battles
for about 24 years. When I first met them Deanna was 3, Michael
was 4 and John was about 8. The whole family spent most of their
time at Hollywood Park. Deanna & Michael would play while
John played baseball. Martin coached baseball for years and
Stella was a scorekeeper. Deanna and Michael always played so
well together and the two of them really looked up to John because
he was old enough to play baseball. Martin and Stella have a
picture of Michael and Deanna hugging with their two faces pressed
together and I can picture the two of them doing that like it
was yesterday.
Michael grew up to be
such a kind, good-hearted young man who to me was the epitome
of good health. All through the teenaged years when other kids
were trying to avoid their parents, he never seemed to do that
and he was never shy with his feelings. It didn't matter who
was in the house when he went out, he hugged his parents, said
I LOVE YOU. He had an honesty with his emotions and feelings
I had never seen before.
Michael had a unique combination
of qualities. He had the sweetness, pureness of heart, love
and enjoyment of nature of a young child combined with the matureness
of a kind, hard working, responsible, caring adult. He was a
good friend and everyone like being with him because he was
easy going, happy, and it felt good to be around him. I think
Martin and Stella helped him to be a good friend to others by
showing him how they were good friends to others. When I hurt
my knee years ago my husband just had helped me onto the couch
propped up my leg with pillows and Martin and Stella came thru
the door to see how I was doing. When my appendix burst three
weeks after we moved to Vancouver, the day I got out of the
hospital there were flowers from the whole Battle family at
the front door. Theyknew
how to be supportive to their friends and they knew how to be
supportive for each other.
When John
injured his spine in a car accident he was in the Spinal Unit
in Vancouver. Martin and Stella stayed with us for a month,
and then they came every weekend for months. Michael and Deanna
came to visit every single chance they could & together
they encouraged his recovery. When Michael was injured on the
rigs two years ago and his jaw, cheekbones, and face were all
broken Deanna was there when he was released from the hospital.
She drove right to Kentucky Fried Chicken and said Michael would
you like a piece to the guy with his jaw wired shut. She wasn't
just trying to torture him she cut all the meat off and blended
it with a bit of milk to make a chicken shake. She tried all
kinds of different drinks and shakes to help him gain back some
weight. Deanna was there for Michael - he called her his Pieman.
They were always there for each other.
Because the
family was close they have many memories of summer vacations,
Christmas together in Hawaii, birthdays, and anniversaries they
celebrated together. Michael had a fabulous 2 weeks in Hawaii
in January with Kristen - his Christmas present to her.
At least
Martin, Stella, John, Deanna, and Kristen know that Michael
really loved them. There was nothing left unspoken, no unfinished
business. We may not be able to hug him with our arms anymore
but each one of us will hold many special memories of him close
in our hearts. They say that someone who was loved is never
lost, and Michael was loved so very, very much.
Lots of love
& hugs,
Linda Cain
Stella,
Martin, John & Deanna
Michael was one of a
kind. A true loving, caring person who made everyone around
him feel so special.
You were truly blessed to have a son and brother such as Michael.
Whenever he stopped to visit me, I'd ask him how you all were
doing, and he'd talk about you all with such love and pride
in his voice that I could just feel the way he cared and loved
you.
Just being around Michael brought such joy as he was a super
human being. He always had such a great sense of humor and
so fun loving, and we shared many a good laugh over silly
little things.
I will treasure the times I had when he visited me and will
forever miss his smiling face.
My heart goes out to all of you. If he meant so much to me
and many other people, I know you his family are going through
the worst of all.
May the many happy memories you have of him allow you , in
time to remember him with a smile and not tears.
He will be truly missed by all who knew and loved him.
Love Always
Sharon Dzenkiw
(Original hand written)
Email
from DeRenzos
Dear Deanna
Jerry and I just want
to say how very sorry we were to hear about Michael's accident
and his passing away. I can't imagine the pain you must feel
and we want you to know that we will be praying for you and
your family during this difficult time.
Lean hard on God because He is a God of comfort. I wish I
could be there to put my arms around you. Be assured you will
be in our thoughts as you go through this valley. Please give
our love to your folks and your brother.
Love
Lois and Jerry
Email
from Natalie Dzenkiw
Uncle Martin, Auntie
Stella, Deanna and John. I am so sorry for the accident which
Michael was in;. I think I am still in shock. It's so hard
to even type the words I would like to say, but just know
that my prayers and thoughts are with you all. It's hard being
overseas at this time, I just wanted to get a flight home,
but unfortunately with Easter everything was booked and it
just didn't work out. I think the people in this café
think I am crazy because the keyboard is full of my tears
from me wiping my face.
Again my thoughts and love are with you all, as with Michael,
and I'm so sorry I could not be there for the funeral, I will
see you all in the summer when I get back to Canada Love Natalie
Email
from Chris Narver
Well I believe you,
I think Michael was a guardian angel sent down to earth to
protect all of us, I guess his job was done and he had to
leave. I miss my friend and still can't believe this all happened
so fast. I have learned a lot and I know Mike would want me
to learn from this. I have learned that life is a very fragile
and wonderful thing and it can be taken from the best of us.
I will never take any of my friends or loved ones for granted
and I mean this by if some one calls and leaves a message
not to return it days later but now. Mike and I had a wonderful
bond and I loved him as a brother its going to take a long
time to get through and I don't think I will ever get over
his death. Many night I have been scared to go to sleep or
to be by my self. Thanks to all the Battles I love you all
and will keep in touch.
Email
from Shanna
Dear Deanna & Family
I hope things are getting better for you, I know the pain
is still fresh. We heard that the funeral will be this Saturday
(not sure of the time yet) and while Jodey and Chase will
definitely make it, because of the day, I won't. I hope you
forgive me, I am Matron of honour at a friends wedding that
day (the 22nd) and if it were anything else I'd duck out for
sure, no matter the consequences. I hope you understand.
Also, Jodey and I would
like to have a wake, a bonfire down on the water here in Campbell
River and invite yourself, your friends and family and Kristen
as well. A lot of people here in Campbell River knew Mike
as a friend and instructor and we'd like to give them the
chance to celebrate his life if they are unable to make the
Victoria funeral, such as myself. We're not sure of the date
yet but it may be during next week (most of our instructors
are going to be away next weekend with a tournament) so let
me know if there is any day that is good for you or if you'd
be able to come.
If you need anything
at all, Deanna do not hesitate to ask. I hope the flowers
came and were beautiful. I also contacted Kevin and Rebecka
Morgan last night as well. I will contact them again with
the funeral time?
Love Shanna Ingalls
Email from Richard Ogden
Michael, we have shared
so many memories, the thoughts of those memories will be "forever
in my heart" You are a true inspiration to us all, you
will never be forgotten. Thank you for everything you have given.
I look forward to riding with you again. No words could ever
describe the feelings that I have, you will always be smiling
in my heart. Mike "I love You", you are a true friend
and will never be replaced. My heart goes out to the Battle
family, you were extremely fortunate to have a son and brother
like Michael.
With greatest sympathy
Richard Ogden
Forever
Good-bye
I kissed
your cheek
your eyes see me through a haze
of calm and still
to taste one grain of salt from your tear
pain seizes this heart
My face
longing for the breath
of your silent sleeping whisper
empty inside
I cry death of me
Take me
pain has no home in a
crumbled soul
stolen was my breath
I cry life out through my tears
Shake this
dream from its nightmare state
wake the shadows
this valley of death
welcomed by none
Life becomes metallic Ah
Sweet words
were last
spoken
from flesh to ashes
return to nature
set free your soul
In life
you shared the ocean
sleep now, my Brother
you are home with the waves
the sea otter
protects you now.
Deanna Battle 2002
To the Battle
Family
It was very sad to hear
of the recent passing of your son and brother.
Last summer, I had the pleasure of meeting Mike at the Oak Bay
Marina through my work in children's programs at the Commonwealth
Place. For all our kids "Captain Mike" became a very
special part of their "experience". He was a caring
and understanding teacher (for many who had never been fishing
before) as well, he was an energetic and creative role model!
From his "potato awards" for the biggest fish caught to
the mighty catch called a "rubber duckie" our
days on the boat were always full of laughs and fun memories
were made. Mike helped create a positive, safe and fun "adventure"
that will always be remembered. J
On behalf of my co-worker
John and our kids we wish to
send you Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you all.
Sincerely Jayne Cromie
(Original hand written)
Dear Martin, Stella
Nothing in this world
can compare with the pain and despair over the loss of a child.
Everyday my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I believe we are lent our children by God and we are given the
responsibility to raise them to be Gods children. You have fulfilled
Gods wishes by raising three loving, kind children. Mike was
given us for a very short time. In that time he influenced every
person he met with love and joy.
Mike was always a special angel. Try to believe he is still
with you loving you all.
Sincerely Sallie Ellis
(Original hand written)
Dear Martin,
Mrs. Battle and Family
Words cannot express your
loss and as parents we can only imagine.
I would like to think
and believe that the Buddhists, who are recognized as among
the worlds most knowledgeable and ancient philosophers cannot
be wrong.
I would like to share
their conviction and faith that our presence on this earth occurs
in many stages and on various planes, as similar yet different
souls.
They believe that when a child is taken from us, he or she has
only fulfilled an interval from a previous life and are now
free to reach further levels of learning and enlightenment.
I would like to believe
that Michael shared his stage with us and we are fortunate to
have been part of that time.
We should be happy that
he chose all of us..it is hard, I know but hopefully, in
time, we will all come to believe that destiny is not to be
feared, that Michael is happy and safe and was here to help
show us the way.
Shaun & Susan Lees
The Breath
of Time
So much
depends on the movement of Time
a day is a second
a minute a thousand years
all based on Breath
A mother
tastes moments
sweet honeysuckle and fresh berries
savors each second
flies with time through timeless skies
A sister
chokes on empty air
chalk, dust, dirt, stuck in dry mouth
wants to rewind the minutes, make a new day
freezes with time in timeless corridors
So much
depends on the breath of Time
one Breath
and the flames of a raging life
went out
One Breath
and that night, that hallway, those faces those tears
frozen, endless
like a never-ending tunnel with no light at the end
and Time was forgotten
there was no past and no future
only the confusion of grief
So much
depends on the movement of time
endless those first few days
when flowers and sky and music were dull
when rain was only good for hiding tears
when minutes blended to days
and we forgot how to laugh
we talked
about time in years
twenty eight being so young
we forgot about the past
But we
could not hold off the future
for Time does not stand still
it is perceived motion, relative to experience
and twenty eight years was lived like fifty six with laughter
and we learned that life is not measured by its length
but by its depth
We began
to smile and remember
the energy, the hugs, the handshakes
the laughter, the tears, the adventures
and we looked at Time with a new perspective
believed that there may actually be lessons to learn from sadness
the air
felt crisper, the trees seemed greener
the days more vibrant
So much
depends on the movement of Time
a day gone in a second
a minute lasting a thousand years
all based on breath
one Breath
is suddenly one year
and we stop and wonder
how one year could feel like eternity
yet arrive so quickly
one whole year
we wonder
why the day feels colder
why the flowers aren't so pretty and the sky seems gray
why it feels like only a week has passed
But we must not forget the lessons that are found
in the midst of anger and grief
we must not forget the goodness that was brought into our lives
the flashy smile, the goofy grin
the hugs that lasted forever
We must
never forget
but we must also remember
that the flowers are beautiful
and that music is passion
and that we all have the power to make each moment
last a lifetime
we can
dance and laugh and wonder and dream
we can crush each minute to our hearts
and feel every second of energy
and fill our souls with love
We can
shout to the stars, "thank you, thank you
for these precious moments"
and we can smile with the secret knowledge that someone
may be looking down upon us, nodding with approval
secure in the knowledge that we have learned our lessons
and that we will do everything in our power
to use those lessons, regardless of how painful they may be
so much
depends on the breath of Time
one Breath
is our lifetime